Forgiving is a brave act. It makes the other person feel weak in your
presence.
Real forgiving, in fact, means never feeling the need of having to
forgive. Others can hurt you only if you permit them to do so. The less
you need to forgive others, the less life will give you chances that
necessitate your having to forgive others.
Allow yourself to commit mistakes so that you can learn from them. When
youaccept yourself you will be able to accept others too. If you
refrain fromjudging
others it shall make it easier for you to forgive yourself and carry on
with your inner peace.
Watch what is happening within you without getting carried away. See
‘what is' and don't compare it with ‘what should be' because ‘what is'
is ‘what should be.'
Deepak Chopra writes in his famous book
‘Ageless Body Timeless Mind' that forgiveness of others comes only
when you can release your own hurt. The more complete your release, the
more sincere the forgiveness.
