Conclusion - Final words of advice
Don't let your computer get overloaded looking at all these
methods. Remember just reading will not make you happy; you must DO SOMETHING
with the ideas you read! You must change how you act and think. Find two or
three methods that seem practical to you and give them an earnest try! If your
first attempts don't work, try something else until you feel less depressed.
Don't assume that the psychological methods above will
instantly change or overcome the ways you have been acting, feeling, or thinking
for many years. You can't just plan one active, fun weekend and, then, expect
the depression to lift forever. You can't try stopping depressing thoughts for
two or three hours and, then, expect these upsetting ideas to stop forever. You
can't just try for an hour to think of positive things about yourself and, then,
expect to like everything about yourself ever after. It is a major undertaking
to change yourself from a pessimist into an optimist. We are talking attending
to details for weeks or months.
Note again: If your depression is serious or
dangerous, get professional help immediately. Even if your depression is not
serious but a support group and/or your self-help efforts are not helping, get
individual therapy from two experienced professionals--a MD and a
psychotherapist. If medication has not helped, see a psychotherapist. If several
sessions of psychotherapy has not helped, get medication from a MD and consider
getting another psychotherapist.
I must repeat that anti depressive medication and PMS
treatment are important sources of help. Scientists don't know exactly how the
drugs work, but for some people antidepressants are a godsend. Strangely, many
studies have shown that 30%-40% of depressed people improve when given a sugar
pill for the depression, while about 50%-65% improve on an antidepressant. We
don't know why placebos are so powerful with briefer and milder depressions. But
for deep depression (including weight loss, early morning awakening, continuous
sluggishness, total loss of interest and pleasure in life) antidepressants are
necessary and far more effective than a placebo.
About half of all people evaluated by a psychiatrist for any
problem are prescribed drugs! Over half of patients ordered to take drugs by
psychiatrists are told to take anti-depressive medication! And, private
psychiatrists, the most expensive kind, prescribe about 70% of all
anti-depressive drugs, not Mental Health Centers or family physicians or other
public clinics (this may be changing as selected psychoactive drugs, such as
Prozac, become popular and fashionable). As mentioned, the benefits of drugs can
be life-saving for some people, so psychiatrists like Kramer (1993) strongly
advocate Prozac for depression. Likewise, treatment for PMS helps many women
avoid depression and tension.
Many depressed patients feel certain that their prescriptions
are very beneficial. Yet, everyone shouldn't assume that drugs will be an easy,
cheap panacea for them. Drug companies spend $5 billion a year to promote drugs.
Recent studies, however, using patient ratings and effective designs, have found
that for many people anti depressive medication gave little relief from
depression. Even psychiatrists admit that perhaps 30% of severely depressed
patients are not "cured" by antidepressants. Nevertheless, the point is:
millions of other people have gained relief by using prescribed drugs even
though less than 20% of depressions have identifiable medical causes. Drugs
should not be avoided, but the truth is that many people won't use drugs, and
when they do, the drop out and relapse rates are higher with drugs than with
psychotherapy. Effective drugs (which include placebos) should be used
cautiously in conjunction with psychological methods (treatment and self-help).